A PUT-OUT sibling-of-the-bride has refused to buy a wedding gift ahead of the nuptials — and it's led to a furious argument.
But while they said their whole family is on the bride's side, social media users insist the non-gift-giver is in the right, labeling the almost-married sister "entitled."
The sibling took to Reddit’s Am I The A**hole forum to ask for advice ahead of their sister’s wedding.
The Reddit post read: “Two years ago, my sister married her high school love after they were together for about eight years.
“For their wedding, I bought them a pretty expensive couch ($7,600) because it was on their wedding wishlist for the close family.
“Back then she was absolutely stunned by the gift and said it was the best one she got.
“However, they got divorced around half a year later and I still have no clue why.
“After a year break, they got back together six months ago and decided that they wanted to marry again.
"And again in a church with a big wedding like the first time.
“I have nothing against that but today she sent me and my family another wishlist for this wedding.
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“My family, who all gifted her stuff worth around $500-$600 last time, don’t have a problem with that.
“But since my gift was more than 10 times more expensive than that I informed her that she’s not getting another one unless it’s a gift card of about $100.
“She completely freaked out and said that it’s her wedding and how I could be so selfish.
“My family is on her side so I don’t know if I am the a**hole or not?”
A stream of responses to the thread argued the sister shouldn’t expect any gifts because she’s remarrying the same man as her first wedding.
One person commented: “Did her marriage not work the first time because she's super entitled?
“Newsflash: people don't generally get gifts for a second+ wedding. It sounds like she's just looking to turn this into a gift grab. Don't buy into it.”
Another said: “The greed is strong in this one. She's marrying the same guy.
“I wouldn't give any gift whatsoever. You've already gifted for this marriage. ‘Lather, rinse, repeat’ doesn't call for a new round of gifts.”
A third said: “Second wedding in as many years and she expects gifts? Even expecting family attendance is a stretch.
“I’m trying to figure out how they even managed to get legally divorced and back together and remarried that fast.
However, others defended the sister and said she should be given a gift that complements the initial couch that was given.
One person wrote: “I’d get her a nice throw blanket & accent pillows to go on the exorbitantly priced couch you bought for her last time.
“Add a note hoping she is still enjoying her once-in-a-lifetime gift.”
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Another chimed in: “I would get something small from the list, something you wouldn't mind giving them for any other occasion.
“See if there is something on her list that's around $100, instead of just giving a gift card.”
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